许多年来，我一直坚辛的槊造完美的人性，当我以为我已经快要完成时，才知道我只成功的槊造了完美的外表，
内里却空无一物，甚至脆弱得可怜。。。任何一次的失败，就像一把铁锤用力锤在我虚伪的外壳上，不只粉粹了
我的面具，还粉粹了我的心，我的雄心壮志，我的梦。。。残忍的毁灭我的一切。。
我渴望成功，胜利，万众瞩目。就因为我太相信我可以达成，所以当我发觉我越长大就越离目标越远时，我突然迷失了。跌入了无边的漩涡中。。抽身难。
我害怕，害怕在无边大海中，不知何去何从的感觉。。
我无助，仿佛浩瀚虚空，只有我一人。。
我无声呐喊，好像所有的力气都用来驱赶满心的愁雾，再也使不出丁点力气。。
面对与逃避，我，竟会选择逃避，活了这么久，我看这次是心灵上，败得最澈底的一次了。。我真的好害怕永远都站不起来。。
我讨厌这样的我，懦弱，自卑。但我不得不接受，因为这样的我，也是我。。
好想，好想。。寻回昔日勇往直前，不惧困难的我。。
但是，我清楚明白那是过去的我，现在的我只要再站起来，克服眼前的弱点，那我将会更强大。。
唉，知易行难。。人生莫不如此。。
2009年11月9日星期一
8/11/09 死过番生
死亡，总是发生在我们最预料不到的时刻。。
可能明年，或明天，或下一秒。。 我们无从得知，人类充其量只能够活好现在，掌握这一刻，我们的力量太渺小了。。
今天，在BTCC练习完，回程时，因为太累了，整车的人都睡着了，雄一个人驾着车，也许没有人陪他交谈，在一刹那间，我经历了生死一线间的情形。因为我们整辆车的一边冲上路沿，我坐在司机的旁边，刚好是我那一边，我一回神，就见到路灯柱在我眼前，千钧一发，雄转回路上去，路灯柱和车子差身而过，一秒的差异，让我现在还有机会在这里写blog，分享给大家知道。。
我没有被吓倒，也没有什么想法，人家说在面临死亡的一迅间，会回想许多东西，但我却脑袋一片空白。。过后，我也 没当一回事，一切如常。。也许不是第一次了吧。。
回想起来，那时，只要车子速度快一点点，还是雄反应慢一秒，或少了那么一点的福运，我看我不是进棺材就是ICU了。生死一线间，太不可思议了。。^^
就当死多一次了，应该更要珍惜身边的一切和生命的每一秒～！！！明天，又是我的重生！！！
可能明年，或明天，或下一秒。。 我们无从得知，人类充其量只能够活好现在，掌握这一刻，我们的力量太渺小了。。
今天，在BTCC练习完，回程时，因为太累了，整车的人都睡着了，雄一个人驾着车，也许没有人陪他交谈，在一刹那间，我经历了生死一线间的情形。因为我们整辆车的一边冲上路沿，我坐在司机的旁边，刚好是我那一边，我一回神，就见到路灯柱在我眼前，千钧一发，雄转回路上去，路灯柱和车子差身而过，一秒的差异，让我现在还有机会在这里写blog，分享给大家知道。。
我没有被吓倒，也没有什么想法，人家说在面临死亡的一迅间，会回想许多东西，但我却脑袋一片空白。。过后，我也 没当一回事，一切如常。。也许不是第一次了吧。。
回想起来，那时，只要车子速度快一点点，还是雄反应慢一秒，或少了那么一点的福运，我看我不是进棺材就是ICU了。生死一线间，太不可思议了。。^^
就当死多一次了，应该更要珍惜身边的一切和生命的每一秒～！！！明天，又是我的重生！！！
2009年11月2日星期一
1/11/09 槟威大桥马拉松比赛
本来打算今年参加槟威大桥马拉松比赛，因为从没有机会享受在槟威大桥上步行的乐趣。。今年真的好想体验一下，不过昨晚教练跟我们说，因为12月有个体操公开赛，所以21和22号晚上都有练习，哇靠～！！只好取消今年挑战槟威大桥的创举，明年才报名。 >.<
如果我坚持参加的话，那21和22号的行程就会是：
21号 9时至6时 整天工作
晚上 7时至11时 地狱式练习 ^^
22号凌晨 1时 睡觉
凌晨 1时30分 醒
凌晨 2时 到queensbay,马拉松现场
凌晨 3时 起跑
早上8时 完毕
9时至中午1时 BTCC训练
3时至6时 休息
晚上7时 再地狱式练习。。
分析结论是，坚持参加的结果，可能会因体力不支而暴毙。。:p
如果我坚持参加的话，那21和22号的行程就会是：
21号 9时至6时 整天工作
晚上 7时至11时 地狱式练习 ^^
22号凌晨 1时 睡觉
凌晨 1时30分 醒
凌晨 2时 到queensbay,马拉松现场
凌晨 3时 起跑
早上8时 完毕
9时至中午1时 BTCC训练
3时至6时 休息
晚上7时 再地狱式练习。。
分析结论是，坚持参加的结果，可能会因体力不支而暴毙。。:p
2009年10月26日星期一
26/10/09 改变
在江湖打混了几年，应该更醒目和成长了不少，但是，为什么我总认为，我还是当年的我，一点也没变。。这是不长进吧。。唉。。
这几年，苦是吃了不少，但是到头来，我还是一无所有。。是时候反省一下了，脑袋涌现了美国大选时obama的口号“改变”。这就真的让他给做到了，成功改变了美国的历史～
我也想改变～！！！
今天，上司和我讲了近一个钟头，我不敢说我是茅塞顿开，但是在那一刻，我下定决心，要澈底改变我自己！我从来没有遇见这么好的上司，这么包容，这么了解，这么关心下属。。我如果无法澈底改变自己，让自己在行业中成功的话，我真的愧对他和一路来相信与支持我的人！！
没有妥协的余地，接下来的一年，我要让自己全力接受磨炼！成为第一名！
这几年，苦是吃了不少，但是到头来，我还是一无所有。。是时候反省一下了，脑袋涌现了美国大选时obama的口号“改变”。这就真的让他给做到了，成功改变了美国的历史～
我也想改变～！！！
今天，上司和我讲了近一个钟头，我不敢说我是茅塞顿开，但是在那一刻，我下定决心，要澈底改变我自己！我从来没有遇见这么好的上司，这么包容，这么了解，这么关心下属。。我如果无法澈底改变自己，让自己在行业中成功的话，我真的愧对他和一路来相信与支持我的人！！
没有妥协的余地，接下来的一年，我要让自己全力接受磨炼！成为第一名！
2009年9月6日星期日
自负
自负，一般上是用来贬低人的用词，我一路以来，对于那些自大而目中无人的人，特别讨厌！自负这词更是我时常用于诋毁一些过于自大的人。
今天，我遇见了一个即自负而我又不讨厌的人，他就是我的gymnastic的教练。初次见面，他就让我心里想：“这人好自负”。不过，在明白了他的实力后，我反而觉得他自负的有道理～ ^^因为他证明了他有实力自大。
自负这个词用在他身上，反而可以解释成， ‘不断的磨炼和经历，使他对于自己充满自信，所以自负。’ 是不是变成了褒义词了？
我们时常讲人家自大，我们有否想过，人家凭什么？凭的不就是他曾经付出比人家多的努力，汗水，吃了比人家多的苦，造就了一个比自己还大的自信。我突然觉得，讲人家自大的人，原来是在妒嫉，妒嫉人家拥有自大的本事，怨恨自己原来没有一样的本事可以自大。。。
这就是人的本性，永远只看到和寻找别人的缺点，而没有反省自己， 也不愿意承任自己有任何的缺点。。。
～战士～
今天，我遇见了一个即自负而我又不讨厌的人，他就是我的gymnastic的教练。初次见面，他就让我心里想：“这人好自负”。不过，在明白了他的实力后，我反而觉得他自负的有道理～ ^^因为他证明了他有实力自大。
自负这个词用在他身上，反而可以解释成， ‘不断的磨炼和经历，使他对于自己充满自信，所以自负。’ 是不是变成了褒义词了？
我们时常讲人家自大，我们有否想过，人家凭什么？凭的不就是他曾经付出比人家多的努力，汗水，吃了比人家多的苦，造就了一个比自己还大的自信。我突然觉得，讲人家自大的人，原来是在妒嫉，妒嫉人家拥有自大的本事，怨恨自己原来没有一样的本事可以自大。。。
这就是人的本性，永远只看到和寻找别人的缺点，而没有反省自己， 也不愿意承任自己有任何的缺点。。。
～战士～
夜生活
白天，是我们大家都熟悉的。但是，大家有没有对另一个我们都不熟悉的夜晚而感到好奇？
我从小就非常好奇，为什么大人们总是把夜晚所发生的事，讲成坏事。打架，闹事，许多罪案的发生，都是在夜晚。甚至，鬼怪之谈，吓唬小孩的传说都以夜晚为背景。让夜晚蒙上了一层神秘的薄纱，也许就因为这个原因，有许多人喜爱探索神秘的夜晚可以带来的刺激。
不知是不是夜晚释放了人们的心灵，有许多人在夜晚会变成另外一个人，在夜店内，就聚集了一班在早上循规蹈矩，而在夜晚借酒精麻醉和强劲音浪来释放压力～蒙蒙胧胧的意识，让我们暂时逃离现时的枷锁，工作的压力，感情的束缚，失去的痛苦。。。
酒入愁肠愁更愁，有谁不懂呢？但是，又有多少人能不借酒消愁呢？醉，或许不是解决烦恼的好办法，但无可否认，对某些人，醉，是没有办法中的办法。
逃避现时，那太容易了。但，问题究竟解决了吗？没有，一点也没有。逃避，只是暂时把烦恼放下，只有面对，坦然的面对问题，才是解决问题的方法。
世人，醒醒吧！有那个夜晚是不会过去的？夜晚过去了，黎明还不是会再来？
～战士～
我从小就非常好奇，为什么大人们总是把夜晚所发生的事，讲成坏事。打架，闹事，许多罪案的发生，都是在夜晚。甚至，鬼怪之谈，吓唬小孩的传说都以夜晚为背景。让夜晚蒙上了一层神秘的薄纱，也许就因为这个原因，有许多人喜爱探索神秘的夜晚可以带来的刺激。
不知是不是夜晚释放了人们的心灵，有许多人在夜晚会变成另外一个人，在夜店内，就聚集了一班在早上循规蹈矩，而在夜晚借酒精麻醉和强劲音浪来释放压力～蒙蒙胧胧的意识，让我们暂时逃离现时的枷锁，工作的压力，感情的束缚，失去的痛苦。。。
酒入愁肠愁更愁，有谁不懂呢？但是，又有多少人能不借酒消愁呢？醉，或许不是解决烦恼的好办法，但无可否认，对某些人，醉，是没有办法中的办法。
逃避现时，那太容易了。但，问题究竟解决了吗？没有，一点也没有。逃避，只是暂时把烦恼放下，只有面对，坦然的面对问题，才是解决问题的方法。
世人，醒醒吧！有那个夜晚是不会过去的？夜晚过去了，黎明还不是会再来？
～战士～
2009年8月2日星期日
a mentor of life
Wat is a mentor of life?
Why we need one?
Do we need a mentor of life?
Is it important?
Why we cant just create or live on our own self?
There is too many question which we cant give an answer to.. And perhaps some don’t even have an exact answer for, so we keep finding, by what ever we can learn from history and researches which have been done..
A mentor is to guide, to teach, to tell, to share, to give.. From the first day we begin when first time we open up our eye to see this world, we start to learn and keep searching for answer, “why” is the word which we think the most in our life. ‘Curious’ bring us along, keep us trying and never give up for living, because we keep digging to know more about this world, from day one onward, all of us, make no different, we share the same world, we keep trying on finding the same answer for ‘why we are here?’..
So a mentor is important to keep human kind improving and keep growing, because they keep transfer the knowledge and experience by generation. We learn from teacher, from books which wrote by others, from natural, every thing seem like our mentor.. A mentor is so important to us, he shortens up the path of learning, he helping us to get that knowledge which we want faster, and he led us to the right path of life. But all these, only come if u got a right mentor of life~
Does u have or found ur mentor of life? Who u can reliable on whole hearted and follow his guidance through out ur whole life. He will be a great leader who lead u to the right path~ he is a teacher for life, who teach u how to live a great life and found ur own mission of life, plus he not only teaching, he was applying what he believe. He also act like the closest one to u, like ur father, all he want is to make sure u grow and walking the right path, some time, he is very strict, to make sure u realize what u have done is wrong, but most of the time he care about u more than he care about himself.
To me, I already found my mentor of life who I am going to follow and respect whole hearted with my life. A great guy name Daisaku Ikeda, who I call Ikeda sensei, spending his life to work on world peace, form up a nation wide society SGI, his guidance help and support millions of people life each day, he is the one who make miracle happen. I am glad that I have a chance to be a disciple of him, he is using his life and all he done to told the whole world how a normal person can do if he want, I have no doubt that I am going to follow and achieve our belief! My mentor, will always in my heart. His teaching will always in my mind. His belief, is always mine belief~
Why we need one?
Do we need a mentor of life?
Is it important?
Why we cant just create or live on our own self?
There is too many question which we cant give an answer to.. And perhaps some don’t even have an exact answer for, so we keep finding, by what ever we can learn from history and researches which have been done..
A mentor is to guide, to teach, to tell, to share, to give.. From the first day we begin when first time we open up our eye to see this world, we start to learn and keep searching for answer, “why” is the word which we think the most in our life. ‘Curious’ bring us along, keep us trying and never give up for living, because we keep digging to know more about this world, from day one onward, all of us, make no different, we share the same world, we keep trying on finding the same answer for ‘why we are here?’..
So a mentor is important to keep human kind improving and keep growing, because they keep transfer the knowledge and experience by generation. We learn from teacher, from books which wrote by others, from natural, every thing seem like our mentor.. A mentor is so important to us, he shortens up the path of learning, he helping us to get that knowledge which we want faster, and he led us to the right path of life. But all these, only come if u got a right mentor of life~
Does u have or found ur mentor of life? Who u can reliable on whole hearted and follow his guidance through out ur whole life. He will be a great leader who lead u to the right path~ he is a teacher for life, who teach u how to live a great life and found ur own mission of life, plus he not only teaching, he was applying what he believe. He also act like the closest one to u, like ur father, all he want is to make sure u grow and walking the right path, some time, he is very strict, to make sure u realize what u have done is wrong, but most of the time he care about u more than he care about himself.
To me, I already found my mentor of life who I am going to follow and respect whole hearted with my life. A great guy name Daisaku Ikeda, who I call Ikeda sensei, spending his life to work on world peace, form up a nation wide society SGI, his guidance help and support millions of people life each day, he is the one who make miracle happen. I am glad that I have a chance to be a disciple of him, he is using his life and all he done to told the whole world how a normal person can do if he want, I have no doubt that I am going to follow and achieve our belief! My mentor, will always in my heart. His teaching will always in my mind. His belief, is always mine belief~
a mentor of life
Wat is a mentor of life?
Why we need one?
Do we need a mentor of life?
Is it important?
Why we cant just create or live on our own self?
There is too many question which we cant give an answer to.. And perhaps some don’t even have an exact answer for, so we keep finding, by what ever we can learn from history and researches which have been done..
A mentor is to guide, to teach, to tell, to share, to give.. From the first day we begin when first time we open up our eye to see this world, we start to learn and keep searching for answer, “why” is the word which we think the most in our life. ‘Curious’ bring us along, keep us trying and never give up for living, because we keep digging to know more about this world, from day one onward, all of us, make no different, we share the same world, we keep trying on finding the same answer for ‘why we are here?’..
So a mentor is important to keep human kind improving and keep growing, because they keep transfer the knowledge and experience by generation. We learn from teacher, from books which wrote by others, from natural, every thing seem like our mentor.. A mentor is so important to us, he shortens up the path of learning, he helping us to get that knowledge which we want faster, and he led us to the right path of life. But all these, only come if u got a right mentor of life~
Does u have or found ur mentor of life? Who u can reliable on whole hearted and follow his guidance through out ur whole life. He will be a great leader who lead u to the right path~ he is a teacher for life, who teach u how to live a great life and found ur own mission of life, plus he not only teaching, he was applying what he believe. He also act like the closest one to u, like ur father, all he want is to make sure u grow and walking the right path, some time, he is very strict, to make sure u realize what u have done is wrong, but most of the time he care about u more than he care about himself.
To me, I already found my mentor of life who I am going to follow and respect whole hearted with my life. A great guy name Daisaku Ikeda, who I call Ikeda sensei, spending his life to work on world peace, form up a nation wide society SGI, his guidance help and support millions of people life each day, he is the one who make miracle happen. I am glad that I have a chance to be a disciple of him, he is using his life and all he done to told the whole world how a normal person can do if he want, I have no doubt that I am going to follow and achieve our belief! My mentor, will always in my heart. His teaching will always in my mind. His belief, is always mine belief~
Why we need one?
Do we need a mentor of life?
Is it important?
Why we cant just create or live on our own self?
There is too many question which we cant give an answer to.. And perhaps some don’t even have an exact answer for, so we keep finding, by what ever we can learn from history and researches which have been done..
A mentor is to guide, to teach, to tell, to share, to give.. From the first day we begin when first time we open up our eye to see this world, we start to learn and keep searching for answer, “why” is the word which we think the most in our life. ‘Curious’ bring us along, keep us trying and never give up for living, because we keep digging to know more about this world, from day one onward, all of us, make no different, we share the same world, we keep trying on finding the same answer for ‘why we are here?’..
So a mentor is important to keep human kind improving and keep growing, because they keep transfer the knowledge and experience by generation. We learn from teacher, from books which wrote by others, from natural, every thing seem like our mentor.. A mentor is so important to us, he shortens up the path of learning, he helping us to get that knowledge which we want faster, and he led us to the right path of life. But all these, only come if u got a right mentor of life~
Does u have or found ur mentor of life? Who u can reliable on whole hearted and follow his guidance through out ur whole life. He will be a great leader who lead u to the right path~ he is a teacher for life, who teach u how to live a great life and found ur own mission of life, plus he not only teaching, he was applying what he believe. He also act like the closest one to u, like ur father, all he want is to make sure u grow and walking the right path, some time, he is very strict, to make sure u realize what u have done is wrong, but most of the time he care about u more than he care about himself.
To me, I already found my mentor of life who I am going to follow and respect whole hearted with my life. A great guy name Daisaku Ikeda, who I call Ikeda sensei, spending his life to work on world peace, form up a nation wide society SGI, his guidance help and support millions of people life each day, he is the one who make miracle happen. I am glad that I have a chance to be a disciple of him, he is using his life and all he done to told the whole world how a normal person can do if he want, I have no doubt that I am going to follow and achieve our belief! My mentor, will always in my heart. His teaching will always in my mind. His belief, is always mine belief~
2009年7月26日星期日
hobby~
every one will have more than a hobby in our life, some people like sport or some things involve more movement and more excitement, some like reading and doing some things more polite. no matter how, i feel hobby is so great when we actually learn and growing while we try our best to do it. hobby really help up, when we have some free time but dont even know what to do.. while doing some thg we like and learn up a skill and can help us to become healthier!
i have a lot of hobby but mostly needed a lot of energy n movement. i like sport, every sport, i like to learn n i like to explore more about it! when i am still a small kid, i already like hiking, run around n i really like to move a lot. then i start playing football, soon i learn basketball, volley ball, badminton n etc.. then i learn swimming,then i have a chance to learn dancing too, but my body seem not so talented in dance, but i try, i try very hard to practice n learn, and i believe every things in this world is posible for us to learn up, its just a matter of time. so i use around 2 years to learn n finally i can dance~!! :) its happy when we achieve some thing that we are not even think we can do it, the process is difficult, but the joy is awesome~ and by learning up a skill through hardship, its confirm we will never lose this skill again! so never give up when u dont know how to do a thing, you will regret one day if you live long enough..
i also join soft gym (mean gymnastic) for 5 years de, from a noob until i know some basic move in gymnastic, its not an easy process, go through a lot of pain and disappointment, fall down thousand of times, but a spirit needed is to stand up and try again, the success is on its way if we keep trying! so i wont let myself easily give up on some thing i wish to learn, because i believe although we are nobody today, with the spirit that never give up and keep improving every day! we going to be somebody one day!
since i was 5 years old,i am really adnire those people who can draw pretty drawing, because i really not good in it, i dont even can draw a proper circle when i reach age of 10. but i learn when people drawing, i stand a side and observe, then i try to draw myself, one time, second, third.... i dont even remember how many time i have practice drawing on my own.. finally i feel sactisfy with my own drawing skill at age of 17. its not easy huh? using almost 12 years to learn a skill.. if i give on the half way, then today i might lose this talent forever, i will never think i can draw in my life.. luckily i try n try n try.. i cannot let myself to give up if i didnt trying my best, because i know i might regret one day in future..
although i have learn up a lot of skill till now, but i also let go a lot of chances i can learn some things new. i know the path in life still a long way to go, we will never know the knowledge and the skill we learn up today, is it we will going to need in future, but what we can do now is try our best to learn most of the things base on our capability, so my dear friends~ never under estimate what you capable to do, and never easily give up on some thing you want to achieve, never stop until the last second~!!! :)
i have a lot of hobby but mostly needed a lot of energy n movement. i like sport, every sport, i like to learn n i like to explore more about it! when i am still a small kid, i already like hiking, run around n i really like to move a lot. then i start playing football, soon i learn basketball, volley ball, badminton n etc.. then i learn swimming,then i have a chance to learn dancing too, but my body seem not so talented in dance, but i try, i try very hard to practice n learn, and i believe every things in this world is posible for us to learn up, its just a matter of time. so i use around 2 years to learn n finally i can dance~!! :) its happy when we achieve some thing that we are not even think we can do it, the process is difficult, but the joy is awesome~ and by learning up a skill through hardship, its confirm we will never lose this skill again! so never give up when u dont know how to do a thing, you will regret one day if you live long enough..
i also join soft gym (mean gymnastic) for 5 years de, from a noob until i know some basic move in gymnastic, its not an easy process, go through a lot of pain and disappointment, fall down thousand of times, but a spirit needed is to stand up and try again, the success is on its way if we keep trying! so i wont let myself easily give up on some thing i wish to learn, because i believe although we are nobody today, with the spirit that never give up and keep improving every day! we going to be somebody one day!
since i was 5 years old,i am really adnire those people who can draw pretty drawing, because i really not good in it, i dont even can draw a proper circle when i reach age of 10. but i learn when people drawing, i stand a side and observe, then i try to draw myself, one time, second, third.... i dont even remember how many time i have practice drawing on my own.. finally i feel sactisfy with my own drawing skill at age of 17. its not easy huh? using almost 12 years to learn a skill.. if i give on the half way, then today i might lose this talent forever, i will never think i can draw in my life.. luckily i try n try n try.. i cannot let myself to give up if i didnt trying my best, because i know i might regret one day in future..
although i have learn up a lot of skill till now, but i also let go a lot of chances i can learn some things new. i know the path in life still a long way to go, we will never know the knowledge and the skill we learn up today, is it we will going to need in future, but what we can do now is try our best to learn most of the things base on our capability, so my dear friends~ never under estimate what you capable to do, and never easily give up on some thing you want to achieve, never stop until the last second~!!! :)
2009年6月29日星期一
忆外婆
同一个家，一样的摆设，一样的一天。。却少了一个人。。
我，不习惯这种寂静，不习惯这种伤悲，没了婆婆的日子，我没有一天习惯过…
一个星期了，从上星期日在会馆知道婆婆的死讯，已经一个星期了。虽然不知何时开始，我已经知道终有一天婆婆会离我而去，但没想到，就这么快。婆婆虽已经住院一星期，昏迷了六天，也没想到，连最后一句离别的话，都还未亲口对婆婆说，她就离开了。还记得那一天星期日，如往常一样在会馆过夜，一早起身，就看到哥哥传来的短讯，“婆婆去世了”。原以为我承受得住，但眼泪不由自主的落下， ‘男儿有泪不轻弹，只是未到伤心处’。大家都醒后，也没对任何人谈起，如往常一样练习，直到下午才回家，也许我不想太快接受这事实，还是想逃避现时，我真的真的不想去面对，也希望这不是真的。
在守孝的五天，我尽量使自己忘掉悲痛，但直到今天我也未开心过。
我好想念您的声音，好想念您的笑容，好想念您的嘘寒问暖，好想念您的唠叨，好想念您时常把我宠坏，好想念您的一切一切。好后悔没有在有机会的时候，好好的向您表明心意。
您身体力行，教导我们无数的人生道理，在我心里，您是个了不起的女人，一个人把六个儿女养大，您的刻苦耐劳，教导我做任何事都要按步就班，脚踏实地，不可贪小便宜。您对家务的认真，使我明了无论事务大小都应该认真看待。您对人对事，都有自己正义的原则，让我不敢行差踏错，宗守原则。婆婆，是您成就了今天的我，我却还没有机会报答您。。虽然您曾因为生病或行动不方便而自责，怕拖累我们，其实我们从没有埋怨，因为您为了我们付出了太多太多，我们怎样也报答不了。。
写了这编文章是要把我的心声记录下来，可能也为了宣泄心中的伤感。。从开始写就一直流泪，从这一刻开始，我要从新开始新生活。
婆婆，虽然您已离我而去，但您的一切将长存在我心里，我不会忘记您，我爱你!
我，不习惯这种寂静，不习惯这种伤悲，没了婆婆的日子，我没有一天习惯过…
一个星期了，从上星期日在会馆知道婆婆的死讯，已经一个星期了。虽然不知何时开始，我已经知道终有一天婆婆会离我而去，但没想到，就这么快。婆婆虽已经住院一星期，昏迷了六天，也没想到，连最后一句离别的话，都还未亲口对婆婆说，她就离开了。还记得那一天星期日，如往常一样在会馆过夜，一早起身，就看到哥哥传来的短讯，“婆婆去世了”。原以为我承受得住，但眼泪不由自主的落下， ‘男儿有泪不轻弹，只是未到伤心处’。大家都醒后，也没对任何人谈起，如往常一样练习，直到下午才回家，也许我不想太快接受这事实，还是想逃避现时，我真的真的不想去面对，也希望这不是真的。
在守孝的五天，我尽量使自己忘掉悲痛，但直到今天我也未开心过。
我好想念您的声音，好想念您的笑容，好想念您的嘘寒问暖，好想念您的唠叨，好想念您时常把我宠坏，好想念您的一切一切。好后悔没有在有机会的时候，好好的向您表明心意。
您身体力行，教导我们无数的人生道理，在我心里，您是个了不起的女人，一个人把六个儿女养大，您的刻苦耐劳，教导我做任何事都要按步就班，脚踏实地，不可贪小便宜。您对家务的认真，使我明了无论事务大小都应该认真看待。您对人对事，都有自己正义的原则，让我不敢行差踏错，宗守原则。婆婆，是您成就了今天的我，我却还没有机会报答您。。虽然您曾因为生病或行动不方便而自责，怕拖累我们，其实我们从没有埋怨，因为您为了我们付出了太多太多，我们怎样也报答不了。。
写了这编文章是要把我的心声记录下来，可能也为了宣泄心中的伤感。。从开始写就一直流泪，从这一刻开始，我要从新开始新生活。
婆婆，虽然您已离我而去，但您的一切将长存在我心里，我不会忘记您，我爱你!
2009年5月3日星期日
improving~
some time that is so fun when we actually look at those people doing some skill in movie or in a performance, i really admire those people because they got talent to perform, like dancing, singing, doing some sport or movement, n etc. i always wish to learn or own some talent to show to others or can actually perform on stage.
well, although i have opportunity to perform few times a year on stage, but then, still have learn up any skill that own by myself. but recently, i and a few of my soka gakkai members go for gymnastic training, finally i learn up a skill that belong to me~
although have been training for gymnastic for a few years time, but because all the skill is teach by those senior in gakkai n without good facilities, so not really improving. this time is totally different, because we have to pay our own to hire a coach to train 8 of us~ and with the new environment n facilities n also an experience coach, we be improving every weeks~
the feeling is great when we know that those skill n move that we dream for so long, finally become truth~ with current speed of improving, i am really confident that we going to make a whole brand new of soft gym performance in gakkai~ 30th of august we are going to have a performance, we will plan n choreograph a great n entertaining performance to show to others~
not only by then, we can also teach a lot of junior gym to become great gymnast~ then we can actually contribute the best we can in 2010 country wide cultural performance at KL~
well, although i have opportunity to perform few times a year on stage, but then, still have learn up any skill that own by myself. but recently, i and a few of my soka gakkai members go for gymnastic training, finally i learn up a skill that belong to me~
although have been training for gymnastic for a few years time, but because all the skill is teach by those senior in gakkai n without good facilities, so not really improving. this time is totally different, because we have to pay our own to hire a coach to train 8 of us~ and with the new environment n facilities n also an experience coach, we be improving every weeks~
the feeling is great when we know that those skill n move that we dream for so long, finally become truth~ with current speed of improving, i am really confident that we going to make a whole brand new of soft gym performance in gakkai~ 30th of august we are going to have a performance, we will plan n choreograph a great n entertaining performance to show to others~
not only by then, we can also teach a lot of junior gym to become great gymnast~ then we can actually contribute the best we can in 2010 country wide cultural performance at KL~
2009年4月30日星期四
busy life~
having a busy life recently, so i don think i can write blog so often de.. only focus on 2 things i am doing now, also drive me crazy, cant even take a break, if i do so, all things will jam and i am going to be headache when continue it..
mostly my time i use to develop my career, so keep thinking ways to improve my skill and learn to be better. but actually i have nothing to write about my career, only by working harder n harder...
another thing i focus is kosenrufu, mean my Buddhism society (soka gakkai malaysia) not only i need to take care of my members, and also need to upgrade myself. almost everyday meeting or prep meet, training for gym, visit n encourage members.. but really learn a lot, n prepared myself to be a great leader in future~ not only in society also in my career~
by using all teaching and experience i learn in gakkai, i wish to form the best group in my career in Malaysia~!!! with following teaching of my mentor, Daisaku Ikeda, i believe my wish confirm will come truth in future~!
mostly my time i use to develop my career, so keep thinking ways to improve my skill and learn to be better. but actually i have nothing to write about my career, only by working harder n harder...
another thing i focus is kosenrufu, mean my Buddhism society (soka gakkai malaysia) not only i need to take care of my members, and also need to upgrade myself. almost everyday meeting or prep meet, training for gym, visit n encourage members.. but really learn a lot, n prepared myself to be a great leader in future~ not only in society also in my career~
by using all teaching and experience i learn in gakkai, i wish to form the best group in my career in Malaysia~!!! with following teaching of my mentor, Daisaku Ikeda, i believe my wish confirm will come truth in future~!
2009年4月11日星期六
reli good story to inspire all of us~ :)
年薪10萬人民幣的乞丐給我上了震撼的一課我拎著剛買的levi’s從茂業出來，站在門
等一個朋友。一個職業乞丐發現了我，非常專業的、徑直的停在我面 前。
這一停，於是就有了後面這個讓我深感震撼的故事，就象上了一堂生動的市
場調查案例課。為了忠實于這個乞丐的原意，我憑記憶儘量重複他原來的話。
“先生……行行好，給點吧。”我一時無聊便在口袋裏找出一個硬幣扔給他並同他
攀談起來。
乞丐很健談。“……我只在華強北一帶乞討，你知道嗎？我一掃眼就見到你。在
茂業買levi’s，一定捨得花錢……”
“哦？你懂的蠻多嘛！”我很驚訝。
“做乞丐，也要用科學的方法。”他說。
我一愣，饒有興趣地問“什麼科學的方法？”
“你看看我和其他乞丐有什麼不同的地方先？”我仔細打量他，頭髮很亂、衣服
很破、手很瘦，但都不髒。
他打斷我的思考，說：“人們對乞丐都很反感，但我相信你並沒有反感我，這點
我看的出來。這就是我與其他乞丐的不同之處。”
我點頭默認，確實不反感，要不我怎麼同一個乞丐攀談起來。
“我懂得swot分析，優勢、劣勢、機會和威脅。對於我的競爭對手，我的優勢是
我不令人反感。機會和威脅都是外在因素，無非是深圳人口多和深圳將要市容整改等。
“我做過精確的計算。這裏每天人流上萬，窮人多，有錢人更多。理論上講，我
若是每天向每人討1塊錢，那我每月就能掙30萬。但是，並不是每個人都會給，而且每
天也討不了這麼多人。所以，我得分析，哪些是目標客戶，哪些是潛在客戶。”他潤潤
嗓子繼續說，“在華強北區域，我的目標客戶是總人流量的3成，成功幾率70%。潛在客
戶占2成，成功幾率50%；剩下5成，我選擇放棄，因為我沒有足夠的時間在他們身上碰
運氣。”
“那你是怎樣定義你的客戶呢？”我追問。
“首先，目標客戶。就像你這樣的年輕先生，有經濟基礎，出手大方。另外還有
那些情侶也屬於我的目標客戶，他們為了在異性面前不丟面子也會大方施捨。其次，我
把獨自一人的漂亮女孩看作潛在客戶，因為她們害怕糾纏，所以多數會花錢免災。這兩
類群體，年齡都控制在20~30歲。年齡太小，沒什麼經濟基礎；年齡太大，可能已結婚
，財政大權掌握在老婆手中。這類人，根本沒戲，恨不得反過來找我要錢。”
“那你每天能討多少錢。”我繼續問。
“週一到週五，生意差點，兩百塊左右吧。週末，甚至可以討到四、五百。”
“這麼多？”
見我有些懷疑，他給我算了一筆帳。“和你們一樣，我也是每天工作8小時，上午
11點到晚上7點，週末正常上班。我每乞討1次的時間大概為5秒鐘，扣除來回走動和搜
索目標的時間，大概1分鐘乞討1次得1塊錢，8個小時就是480塊，再乘以成功幾率
60%[（70%+50%）÷2]，得到將近300塊。”
“千萬不能黏著客戶滿街跑。如果乞討不成，我決不死纏濫打。因為他若肯給錢
的話早就給了，所以就算腆著臉糾纏，成功的機會還是很小。不能將有限的時間浪費在
無施捨欲望的客戶身上，不如轉而尋找下一個目標。”
強！這個乞丐聽上去真不可貌相，倒像是一位資深的市場行銷總監。
“你接著說。”我更感興趣了，看來今天能學到新的東西了。
“有人說做乞丐是靠運氣吃飯，我不以然。給你舉個例子，女人世界門口，一個
帥氣的男生，一個漂亮的女孩，你選哪一個乞討？”
我想了想，說不知道。
“你應該去男的那兒。身邊就是美女，他不好意思不給。但你要去了女的那邊，
她大可假裝害怕你遠遠地躲開。”
“再給你舉個例子。那天cocopark門口，一個年輕女孩，拿著一個購物袋，剛買
完東西；還有一對青年男女，吃著霜淇淋；第三個是衣著考究的年輕男子，拿著筆記本
包。我看一個人只要3秒鐘，我毫不猶豫地走到女孩面前乞討。女孩在袋子裏掏出兩
個硬幣扔給我，並奇怪我為什麼只找她乞討。我回答說，那對情侶，在吃東西，不方便
掏錢；那個男的是高級白領，身上可能沒有零錢；你剛從超市買東西出來，身上肯定有
零錢。”
有道理！我越聽越有意思。
“所以我說，知識決定一切！”我聽十幾個總裁講過這句話，第一次聽乞丐也這
麼說。
“要用科學的方法來乞討。天天躺在天橋上，怎麼能討到錢？走天橋的都是行色
匆匆的路人，誰沒事走天橋玩，爬上爬下的多累。要用知識武裝自己，學習知識可以把
一個人變得很聰明，聰明的人不斷學習知識就可以變成人才。21世紀最需要的是什麼？
就是人才。”
“有一次，一人給我50塊錢，讓我替他在樓下喊‘安紅，我想你’，喊100聲。我
一合計，喊一聲得花5秒鐘，跟我乞討一次花費的時間相當，所得的酬勞才5毛錢，於是
我拒絕了他。”
“在深圳，一般一個乞丐每月能討個千兒八百。運氣好時的大概兩千多點。全深
圳十萬個乞丐，大概只有十個乞丐，每月能討到一萬以上。我就是這萬里挑一中的一個
而且很穩定，基本不會有很大的波動。”
太強了！我越發佩服這個乞丐了。
“我常說我是一個快樂的乞丐。其他乞丐說是因為我討的錢多，所以快樂。我對
他們說，你們正好錯了。正是因為我有快樂、積極的心態，所以討的錢多。”
說的多好啊！
“乞討就是我的工作，要懂得體味工作帶來的樂趣。雨天人流稀少的時候，其他
乞丐都在抱怨或者睡覺。千萬不要這樣，用心感受一下這坐城市的美。晚上下班後帶著
老婆孩子逛街玩耍看夜景，一家三口其樂融融，也不枉此生了。若是碰到同行，有時也
會扔個硬幣，看著他們高興的道謝走開，就仿佛看見自己的身影。”
“你還有老婆孩子？”我不禁大聲讚歎，引來路人側目。
“我老婆在家做全職太太，孩子念小學。我在福田區分期了一套房，十年分期，
還差六年就還清了。我要努力掙錢，供我兒子讀大學念市場行銷專業，然後子承父業當
一個比我更出色的乞丐。”
“我5年前在微硬中華大區做市場策劃，2年前升為行銷經理，月薪5千。那時分期
了一台1萬多的三星筆記本，每個月還款2千，要死要活的。後來我想這樣永遠也出不了
頭，就辭職不幹了，下海來做乞丐，我願意做一個高素質的乞丐。”
聽完，我激動地說：“你有沒有興趣收我做徒弟……
等一個朋友。一個職業乞丐發現了我，非常專業的、徑直的停在我面 前。
這一停，於是就有了後面這個讓我深感震撼的故事，就象上了一堂生動的市
場調查案例課。為了忠實于這個乞丐的原意，我憑記憶儘量重複他原來的話。
“先生……行行好，給點吧。”我一時無聊便在口袋裏找出一個硬幣扔給他並同他
攀談起來。
乞丐很健談。“……我只在華強北一帶乞討，你知道嗎？我一掃眼就見到你。在
茂業買levi’s，一定捨得花錢……”
“哦？你懂的蠻多嘛！”我很驚訝。
“做乞丐，也要用科學的方法。”他說。
我一愣，饒有興趣地問“什麼科學的方法？”
“你看看我和其他乞丐有什麼不同的地方先？”我仔細打量他，頭髮很亂、衣服
很破、手很瘦，但都不髒。
他打斷我的思考，說：“人們對乞丐都很反感，但我相信你並沒有反感我，這點
我看的出來。這就是我與其他乞丐的不同之處。”
我點頭默認，確實不反感，要不我怎麼同一個乞丐攀談起來。
“我懂得swot分析，優勢、劣勢、機會和威脅。對於我的競爭對手，我的優勢是
我不令人反感。機會和威脅都是外在因素，無非是深圳人口多和深圳將要市容整改等。
“我做過精確的計算。這裏每天人流上萬，窮人多，有錢人更多。理論上講，我
若是每天向每人討1塊錢，那我每月就能掙30萬。但是，並不是每個人都會給，而且每
天也討不了這麼多人。所以，我得分析，哪些是目標客戶，哪些是潛在客戶。”他潤潤
嗓子繼續說，“在華強北區域，我的目標客戶是總人流量的3成，成功幾率70%。潛在客
戶占2成，成功幾率50%；剩下5成，我選擇放棄，因為我沒有足夠的時間在他們身上碰
運氣。”
“那你是怎樣定義你的客戶呢？”我追問。
“首先，目標客戶。就像你這樣的年輕先生，有經濟基礎，出手大方。另外還有
那些情侶也屬於我的目標客戶，他們為了在異性面前不丟面子也會大方施捨。其次，我
把獨自一人的漂亮女孩看作潛在客戶，因為她們害怕糾纏，所以多數會花錢免災。這兩
類群體，年齡都控制在20~30歲。年齡太小，沒什麼經濟基礎；年齡太大，可能已結婚
，財政大權掌握在老婆手中。這類人，根本沒戲，恨不得反過來找我要錢。”
“那你每天能討多少錢。”我繼續問。
“週一到週五，生意差點，兩百塊左右吧。週末，甚至可以討到四、五百。”
“這麼多？”
見我有些懷疑，他給我算了一筆帳。“和你們一樣，我也是每天工作8小時，上午
11點到晚上7點，週末正常上班。我每乞討1次的時間大概為5秒鐘，扣除來回走動和搜
索目標的時間，大概1分鐘乞討1次得1塊錢，8個小時就是480塊，再乘以成功幾率
60%[（70%+50%）÷2]，得到將近300塊。”
“千萬不能黏著客戶滿街跑。如果乞討不成，我決不死纏濫打。因為他若肯給錢
的話早就給了，所以就算腆著臉糾纏，成功的機會還是很小。不能將有限的時間浪費在
無施捨欲望的客戶身上，不如轉而尋找下一個目標。”
強！這個乞丐聽上去真不可貌相，倒像是一位資深的市場行銷總監。
“你接著說。”我更感興趣了，看來今天能學到新的東西了。
“有人說做乞丐是靠運氣吃飯，我不以然。給你舉個例子，女人世界門口，一個
帥氣的男生，一個漂亮的女孩，你選哪一個乞討？”
我想了想，說不知道。
“你應該去男的那兒。身邊就是美女，他不好意思不給。但你要去了女的那邊，
她大可假裝害怕你遠遠地躲開。”
“再給你舉個例子。那天cocopark門口，一個年輕女孩，拿著一個購物袋，剛買
完東西；還有一對青年男女，吃著霜淇淋；第三個是衣著考究的年輕男子，拿著筆記本
包。我看一個人只要3秒鐘，我毫不猶豫地走到女孩面前乞討。女孩在袋子裏掏出兩
個硬幣扔給我，並奇怪我為什麼只找她乞討。我回答說，那對情侶，在吃東西，不方便
掏錢；那個男的是高級白領，身上可能沒有零錢；你剛從超市買東西出來，身上肯定有
零錢。”
有道理！我越聽越有意思。
“所以我說，知識決定一切！”我聽十幾個總裁講過這句話，第一次聽乞丐也這
麼說。
“要用科學的方法來乞討。天天躺在天橋上，怎麼能討到錢？走天橋的都是行色
匆匆的路人，誰沒事走天橋玩，爬上爬下的多累。要用知識武裝自己，學習知識可以把
一個人變得很聰明，聰明的人不斷學習知識就可以變成人才。21世紀最需要的是什麼？
就是人才。”
“有一次，一人給我50塊錢，讓我替他在樓下喊‘安紅，我想你’，喊100聲。我
一合計，喊一聲得花5秒鐘，跟我乞討一次花費的時間相當，所得的酬勞才5毛錢，於是
我拒絕了他。”
“在深圳，一般一個乞丐每月能討個千兒八百。運氣好時的大概兩千多點。全深
圳十萬個乞丐，大概只有十個乞丐，每月能討到一萬以上。我就是這萬里挑一中的一個
而且很穩定，基本不會有很大的波動。”
太強了！我越發佩服這個乞丐了。
“我常說我是一個快樂的乞丐。其他乞丐說是因為我討的錢多，所以快樂。我對
他們說，你們正好錯了。正是因為我有快樂、積極的心態，所以討的錢多。”
說的多好啊！
“乞討就是我的工作，要懂得體味工作帶來的樂趣。雨天人流稀少的時候，其他
乞丐都在抱怨或者睡覺。千萬不要這樣，用心感受一下這坐城市的美。晚上下班後帶著
老婆孩子逛街玩耍看夜景，一家三口其樂融融，也不枉此生了。若是碰到同行，有時也
會扔個硬幣，看著他們高興的道謝走開，就仿佛看見自己的身影。”
“你還有老婆孩子？”我不禁大聲讚歎，引來路人側目。
“我老婆在家做全職太太，孩子念小學。我在福田區分期了一套房，十年分期，
還差六年就還清了。我要努力掙錢，供我兒子讀大學念市場行銷專業，然後子承父業當
一個比我更出色的乞丐。”
“我5年前在微硬中華大區做市場策劃，2年前升為行銷經理，月薪5千。那時分期
了一台1萬多的三星筆記本，每個月還款2千，要死要活的。後來我想這樣永遠也出不了
頭，就辭職不幹了，下海來做乞丐，我願意做一個高素質的乞丐。”
聽完，我激動地說：“你有沒有興趣收我做徒弟……
2009年3月7日星期六
hiking~ muka head n pantai kerajut~
today wake up so damn early because need to prepare myself go hiking.. last night overnight at frenz house because need to wake up so early n follow my fren family n other go pantai kerajut~ i fall asleep nearly 4am, then wake up at 545am, so blur...
then go mc d eat breakfast, i really 'kagum' mc d boss, they really know how to extend their business, doing promotion, 24 hours service provided, breakfast+lunch+dinner serve, music+air-condition, coffee+milo n etc.. wow~ u can find every thg here, relax n having meal, so nice concept~ ops, sorry, out of topic...
after breakfast, begin our journey for hiking, go muka head at first then turn back n go pantai kerajut, take a long time n having fun, not really tough although i not exercise so often, still manage to finish the whole journey~ its fun wen a bunch of people walk n rest n chat n take photo together. quite fun n this is my first time visit here~
actually nothing can do at pantai kerajut, jz relax n really nothing can do.. all these places is actually a natural gift given by god to malaysia n penang, only our government donno how to manage it n take care of it.. this is y, v have all natural resources n still, our people r poor.. so sad but this is truth..
enjoy n very relaxing when d wind blow, the salt in the wind, let us know that v r so close to the sea~ n wen the time i close my eye n listen to the wave sound, feel so good but only thing not so nice is, feel so hot there~ may be foreigner like to explore under the sun, but i really don like it~ :)
then go mc d eat breakfast, i really 'kagum' mc d boss, they really know how to extend their business, doing promotion, 24 hours service provided, breakfast+lunch+dinner serve, music+air-condition, coffee+milo n etc.. wow~ u can find every thg here, relax n having meal, so nice concept~ ops, sorry, out of topic...
after breakfast, begin our journey for hiking, go muka head at first then turn back n go pantai kerajut, take a long time n having fun, not really tough although i not exercise so often, still manage to finish the whole journey~ its fun wen a bunch of people walk n rest n chat n take photo together. quite fun n this is my first time visit here~
actually nothing can do at pantai kerajut, jz relax n really nothing can do.. all these places is actually a natural gift given by god to malaysia n penang, only our government donno how to manage it n take care of it.. this is y, v have all natural resources n still, our people r poor.. so sad but this is truth..
enjoy n very relaxing when d wind blow, the salt in the wind, let us know that v r so close to the sea~ n wen the time i close my eye n listen to the wave sound, feel so good but only thing not so nice is, feel so hot there~ may be foreigner like to explore under the sun, but i really don like it~ :)
Never Give Up easily..
recently, heard my frenz told me that they not doing well in their final exam or final assignment, some need to resit and some also wan to give up...
so i just wish to express my feeling here, this is my personal opinion: i think that if we already spend so much of our time, work so hard and suffer alot these years of study~ its not easy.. so please don easily give up.. there is only few months left n few paper to go or few assignment to finish, compare to our life time challenges, now is only the beginning... n remember, none of us know what going to happen tomorrow, who know tomorrow might be the best day in our life? :)
there is a lot of tougher n harder challenges are waiting us in future, if today, v defeat by an obstacle that stopping us to advance further, mean v already give up to try for any challenge in future.
when obstacle or challenges is occur, there must be a reason that's y u face it, every body facing different challenge in our life, only by trying our best to overcome it, then u will realize y v will face the obstacle, n for sure, v will learn some thing from it. this is call growing up~
without trying our best to overcome any obstacle, mean give up... trying our best mean fight die die for it~ victory come always by effort that had been made... so don look down on what u r doing today, every journey start til finish is only a combination of every small step tat v had made.
appreciate wat u got today n work hard for tomorrow, nothing will be wasted, n remember~ don ever GIVE UP~! because life is long enough to prove to u tat those decision v made today are correct or not, don let ourselves regret in future~!!!
guys n girls~ fight die die for ur goal n never walk away with nothing before u try ur best to get it~!!! cheers~:)
so i just wish to express my feeling here, this is my personal opinion: i think that if we already spend so much of our time, work so hard and suffer alot these years of study~ its not easy.. so please don easily give up.. there is only few months left n few paper to go or few assignment to finish, compare to our life time challenges, now is only the beginning... n remember, none of us know what going to happen tomorrow, who know tomorrow might be the best day in our life? :)
there is a lot of tougher n harder challenges are waiting us in future, if today, v defeat by an obstacle that stopping us to advance further, mean v already give up to try for any challenge in future.
when obstacle or challenges is occur, there must be a reason that's y u face it, every body facing different challenge in our life, only by trying our best to overcome it, then u will realize y v will face the obstacle, n for sure, v will learn some thing from it. this is call growing up~
without trying our best to overcome any obstacle, mean give up... trying our best mean fight die die for it~ victory come always by effort that had been made... so don look down on what u r doing today, every journey start til finish is only a combination of every small step tat v had made.
appreciate wat u got today n work hard for tomorrow, nothing will be wasted, n remember~ don ever GIVE UP~! because life is long enough to prove to u tat those decision v made today are correct or not, don let ourselves regret in future~!!!
guys n girls~ fight die die for ur goal n never walk away with nothing before u try ur best to get it~!!! cheers~:)
2009年3月4日星期三
燙傷處理新法
★未破皮處之燙傷處理（熱水、熱湯、熱油、摩托車煙管、蒸氣燙傷）
燒傷如果沒有馬上降溫與止痛，未來的辛路歷程是可想而知。當燙傷時第一時間不是很痛，是因為身體有百分之0.9的鹽繼續吸皮膚發炎的熱而變成越來越灼熱痛，我們用鹽把熱吸過去就不痛了，因為鹽有吸熱和滲透的特性，民俗廟會過火撒鹽就是這個原理。
我向一位年長的婦女說燙傷須馬上泡冰鹽水：有一次她跌倒整隻手掌插入熱油鍋裡，她整隻手掌藏入鹽堆裡，結果手心手背都好了，指縫起水泡是因為沒有把手指頭張開，還高興的向我說謝謝。
像一般家庭小燙傷：沖水後用很厚的鹽再用濕的面紙敷蓋，偶爾加水！！只要離開鹽不痛約三小時就好了，不需敷藥也沒有留下疤痕。（皮膚未破皮才可用大量的鹽）。
just a sharing, hope every body know more about some useful knowledge which can help us in daily life~
燒傷如果沒有馬上降溫與止痛，未來的辛路歷程是可想而知。當燙傷時第一時間不是很痛，是因為身體有百分之0.9的鹽繼續吸皮膚發炎的熱而變成越來越灼熱痛，我們用鹽把熱吸過去就不痛了，因為鹽有吸熱和滲透的特性，民俗廟會過火撒鹽就是這個原理。
我向一位年長的婦女說燙傷須馬上泡冰鹽水：有一次她跌倒整隻手掌插入熱油鍋裡，她整隻手掌藏入鹽堆裡，結果手心手背都好了，指縫起水泡是因為沒有把手指頭張開，還高興的向我說謝謝。
像一般家庭小燙傷：沖水後用很厚的鹽再用濕的面紙敷蓋，偶爾加水！！只要離開鹽不痛約三小時就好了，不需敷藥也沒有留下疤痕。（皮膚未破皮才可用大量的鹽）。
just a sharing, hope every body know more about some useful knowledge which can help us in daily life~
2009年3月1日星期日
touching~ sharing
在美國的加州有一個小女孩大約是 4 歲
她的父親有一台大卡車，她的父親非常喜歡那台卡車
總是為那台車做全套的保養，以保持卡車的美觀
一天，小女孩拿著硬物在他父親的卡車鈑金上劃下了無數的刮痕 !!
她的父親盛怒之下，用鐵絲把小女孩的手綁起來
?
然後吊著小女孩的手，讓她站在車庫罰站
當父親想起小女兒在車庫罰站時，已經是 4個小時過後了！
?
趕到車庫時，小女孩的手已經被鐵絲綁的血液不通!
父親送她到急診室時，已經需要截去小女孩的手掌了
因為，手掌部分的組織已經都壞死，如不截去手掌 ...
?
她生命是非常危險，甚至可能會危害到小女孩的生命 ...
所以小女孩就這樣失去了她的一雙手掌了 !
但是她不懂 ..... 她不懂到底是發生了什麼事在她的身上 ....
而她的父親也因為這樣感到萬分的愧疚 !
?
過了約半年後
小女孩的父親的卡車進廠重新烤漆，又像全新的一樣!!
當他把卡車開回家後，小女孩看著重新烤漆過的卡車
對著她的父親說
{{Daddy~your truck looking so pretty,same like new truck.}}
<<爸爸 ! 你的卡車好漂亮唷！看起來就像是新卡車>>
這時小女孩無邪的伸出了她那截斷的雙手，對她的父親說
{{but, when you want put my hand back to me??}}
<< 但是你什麼時候要把我的手還給我??>>
你們知道當那位父親聽到小女孩問他的問題時，發生了什麼事嗎 ?
那位父親在小女孩的面前 ..... 舉槍自殺 ...... ?
?
很多人分不清 .....到底什麼是重要的？
?
只會無知迷失在自我的喜好當中 ........
就如有些人會去 慈濟幫忙掃街，但家事從來不管 .......
?
有些人會花很多錢去建廟，但對自己的親人如鐵公雞 .....
?
有些人在外面和言悅色，但對自己的卻家人暴躁如雷 ......
?
這就是說 那個父親不知是車子重要，或是女兒重要呢？
?
而遺憾的事..... 世間到處充滿了這些事 .....
?
而且就在你我之間 ....
?
只要是金錢可以買到的；
都比不上無價的可貴，
請不要吝嗇，多給家人一點愛！
她的父親有一台大卡車，她的父親非常喜歡那台卡車
總是為那台車做全套的保養，以保持卡車的美觀
一天，小女孩拿著硬物在他父親的卡車鈑金上劃下了無數的刮痕 !!
她的父親盛怒之下，用鐵絲把小女孩的手綁起來
?
然後吊著小女孩的手，讓她站在車庫罰站
當父親想起小女兒在車庫罰站時，已經是 4個小時過後了！
?
趕到車庫時，小女孩的手已經被鐵絲綁的血液不通!
父親送她到急診室時，已經需要截去小女孩的手掌了
因為，手掌部分的組織已經都壞死，如不截去手掌 ...
?
她生命是非常危險，甚至可能會危害到小女孩的生命 ...
所以小女孩就這樣失去了她的一雙手掌了 !
但是她不懂 ..... 她不懂到底是發生了什麼事在她的身上 ....
而她的父親也因為這樣感到萬分的愧疚 !
?
過了約半年後
小女孩的父親的卡車進廠重新烤漆，又像全新的一樣!!
當他把卡車開回家後，小女孩看著重新烤漆過的卡車
對著她的父親說
{{Daddy~your truck looking so pretty,same like new truck.}}
<<爸爸 ! 你的卡車好漂亮唷！看起來就像是新卡車>>
這時小女孩無邪的伸出了她那截斷的雙手，對她的父親說
{{but, when you want put my hand back to me??}}
<< 但是你什麼時候要把我的手還給我??>>
你們知道當那位父親聽到小女孩問他的問題時，發生了什麼事嗎 ?
那位父親在小女孩的面前 ..... 舉槍自殺 ...... ?
?
很多人分不清 .....到底什麼是重要的？
?
只會無知迷失在自我的喜好當中 ........
就如有些人會去 慈濟幫忙掃街，但家事從來不管 .......
?
有些人會花很多錢去建廟，但對自己的親人如鐵公雞 .....
?
有些人在外面和言悅色，但對自己的卻家人暴躁如雷 ......
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這就是說 那個父親不知是車子重要，或是女兒重要呢？
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而遺憾的事..... 世間到處充滿了這些事 .....
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而且就在你我之間 ....
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只要是金錢可以買到的；
都比不上無價的可貴，
請不要吝嗇，多給家人一點愛！
QE2
last day of February, Dunhil had organize a party at QE2 Penang..
i go with my best buddy, curly, ah beh, wei sern..
nth special actually.. when d time v enter QE2, pretty model from KL all stand at register counter, there is almost 14 counter, really a big event, info from them is Dunhil have invite around 700 people attend for this party n will hv performance n games.. but v r late so 'no games n no perform'.. ^6^
there were so many guys n girls, n free flow of drinks, great music n imported DJ from other country.. but v not really enjoy much.. although v might drink alot.. but didnt hv any mood to dance or hv fun around, because all of them just standing there, drink n shake their ass a bit.. :p may be they care about their 'class'.. so after get ourselves a bit drunk, v just leave QE2.. this is bored.. ask Dunhil stop call it a 'party', just call it a 'gathering'...:)
its also consider a new experience for me.. ^.^
i go with my best buddy, curly, ah beh, wei sern..
nth special actually.. when d time v enter QE2, pretty model from KL all stand at register counter, there is almost 14 counter, really a big event, info from them is Dunhil have invite around 700 people attend for this party n will hv performance n games.. but v r late so 'no games n no perform'.. ^6^
there were so many guys n girls, n free flow of drinks, great music n imported DJ from other country.. but v not really enjoy much.. although v might drink alot.. but didnt hv any mood to dance or hv fun around, because all of them just standing there, drink n shake their ass a bit.. :p may be they care about their 'class'.. so after get ourselves a bit drunk, v just leave QE2.. this is bored.. ask Dunhil stop call it a 'party', just call it a 'gathering'...:)
its also consider a new experience for me.. ^.^
2009年2月26日星期四
life recently...
keep working day n night these days~ so fun n i really like this feeling when i really go all out~! so damn tired n just cant think of any thing else.. i feel alive after these days of striving~ more challenges will come~ so fun~
last night go clubbing, hv been a while didnt go there n hv fun, but last night really not fun at all.. although its ladies night, but man were more than girl.. so boring~
boring life~~~ wat can v do? so damn boring~~ haha..
but seem that i m walking toward my goal this year.. have to gain some confident from achieving my target.. really low confident recently, may be receive too many rejection from people.. :) but life hv to carry on~ gambate~
last night go clubbing, hv been a while didnt go there n hv fun, but last night really not fun at all.. although its ladies night, but man were more than girl.. so boring~
boring life~~~ wat can v do? so damn boring~~ haha..
but seem that i m walking toward my goal this year.. have to gain some confident from achieving my target.. really low confident recently, may be receive too many rejection from people.. :) but life hv to carry on~ gambate~
2009年2月18日星期三
valentine~ achievers night~~
Valentine day~
every year valentine day i also will tell myself "next year i will not celebrate valentine alone again"
but every year make no different.. this year i been through valentine at KL, because going to attend our company achievers night dinner at genting at 15/2.. so i follow my manager n his wife to KL, n they having their candle light dinner n i become a 'spot light' there.. haha.. so fed up~~ but the food at the cafe really tasty, i been thinking whole night 'i sure bring my gf come here to enjoy the food here~'
Achievers night~
first time i join our company 'achievers night' dinner, quite fun but feel so bad when i saw others people go on stage to get their award n i just sitting there.. n i didnt saw my GSM (manager) go up stage, from that moment onward, i swear to my ownself, i will strive harder, next year, same event, me n my manager must go on stage to get an award~!!!
never disappoint all the people around me again~~ ^.^
every year valentine day i also will tell myself "next year i will not celebrate valentine alone again"
but every year make no different.. this year i been through valentine at KL, because going to attend our company achievers night dinner at genting at 15/2.. so i follow my manager n his wife to KL, n they having their candle light dinner n i become a 'spot light' there.. haha.. so fed up~~ but the food at the cafe really tasty, i been thinking whole night 'i sure bring my gf come here to enjoy the food here~'
Achievers night~
first time i join our company 'achievers night' dinner, quite fun but feel so bad when i saw others people go on stage to get their award n i just sitting there.. n i didnt saw my GSM (manager) go up stage, from that moment onward, i swear to my ownself, i will strive harder, next year, same event, me n my manager must go on stage to get an award~!!!
never disappoint all the people around me again~~ ^.^
狮子座 的我
狮子座，一个博爱和充满阳光，能量的星座，其实狮子座的人很向往爱情，说白了就是狮子座的人最爱的是自己，他要让自己发光发热，获得别人的爱和崇敬，在这其中，他能够体会到这种来自他人的关爱而感到愉悦，于是，他就爱上了别人。。。
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人很不愿意伤害别人，因为他的内心是善良和充满正义感的，他是重视原则的人，但是，如果他做了伤害别人的事情，即便出于面子他没有说什么，但是其实内心里他会真的好自责好内疚的，虽然别人看不到，但是他的确会好难过。
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人，无论男女，都很容易陷入一份感情，但是热情来的很快，冷却的速度也快得
> >
> > 惊人。如果他可以对一份感情持续很长的时间，那么恭喜了，说明你真的很强势很有魅力，足以让他对你死心塌地，否则，狮子座这种内在没有安全感又很敏感的动物，很可能从更有魅力和新鲜的事物上找温暖，因为，狮子座的我们看起来好坚强好阳光好乐观，但是骨子里面的不安感从未消退过，表面的自信只不过是保护自己的盔甲，但并不是很真实。
> >
> >
> > 同时，狮子座的人也可以很绝情，不可能吃回头草，字典里没有'后悔'或者'回头'这两个词，因为狮子座的人很爱面子，自尊心比什么都重要，一旦放弃了或者决定了，就不可能回过头去改变，狮子座的人也很怕被伤害。宁可错过一份感情，宁可放弃。宁可不要，也不会冒可能会被伤害的危险，因为太不值得，因为狮子座的人太爱自己了。。。
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人喜欢热闹，但是也很享受孤独，他可以把这两者之间搞得很平衡，他很喜欢跟
> >
朋友一起，疯狂的玩闹，成为一个party的主角，但是回到家里，他立马就可以变得异常安静，不喜欢被打扰，他需要自己的空间来思考，如果不给狮子这个空间，对他步步紧逼，
> >
> > 那么他一定会抓狂，变得不可理喻，他还会离开你，因为在狮子的字典里，'自由'和'
> >
> > 自我'这两词的比重几乎占据了全部。
> >
> >
> > 还有，狮子座的人很喜欢新鲜的，华丽的，有质感的，昂贵的，有品位的东西，他也喜欢
> >
> > 朴实，但是却不喜欢无聊和无趣，他害怕一成不变的枯燥，他害怕今天就能预见明天的可
> > 能性．
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人有两种不同的倾向，一种是很喜欢天然的东西，不喜欢过多的修饰；另一类是
> >
> > 很喜欢奢华另类奇特的事物，更多是狮子座是两者兼有．
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人很宽容，通常不会因为小事而斤斤计较，他们喜欢展现自己与众不同的仁慈心
> >
> > 和获得尊重。对于过往的爱人，狮子座的人很少去探讨是谁的功过是非，无论当时对方有
> >
> > 多伤害自己，但是过去了就过去了，狮子座的人不会去诅咒或者怨恨，因为他们喜欢向前
> >
> > 看。狮子座的人相信，只要自己完美和努力，幸福就在前方，更美好的一定在等待着我们！！
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人很不愿意伤害别人，因为他的内心是善良和充满正义感的，他是重视原则的人，但是，如果他做了伤害别人的事情，即便出于面子他没有说什么，但是其实内心里他会真的好自责好内疚的，虽然别人看不到，但是他的确会好难过。
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人，无论男女，都很容易陷入一份感情，但是热情来的很快，冷却的速度也快得
> >
> > 惊人。如果他可以对一份感情持续很长的时间，那么恭喜了，说明你真的很强势很有魅力，足以让他对你死心塌地，否则，狮子座这种内在没有安全感又很敏感的动物，很可能从更有魅力和新鲜的事物上找温暖，因为，狮子座的我们看起来好坚强好阳光好乐观，但是骨子里面的不安感从未消退过，表面的自信只不过是保护自己的盔甲，但并不是很真实。
> >
> >
> > 同时，狮子座的人也可以很绝情，不可能吃回头草，字典里没有'后悔'或者'回头'这两个词，因为狮子座的人很爱面子，自尊心比什么都重要，一旦放弃了或者决定了，就不可能回过头去改变，狮子座的人也很怕被伤害。宁可错过一份感情，宁可放弃。宁可不要，也不会冒可能会被伤害的危险，因为太不值得，因为狮子座的人太爱自己了。。。
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人喜欢热闹，但是也很享受孤独，他可以把这两者之间搞得很平衡，他很喜欢跟
> >
朋友一起，疯狂的玩闹，成为一个party的主角，但是回到家里，他立马就可以变得异常安静，不喜欢被打扰，他需要自己的空间来思考，如果不给狮子这个空间，对他步步紧逼，
> >
> > 那么他一定会抓狂，变得不可理喻，他还会离开你，因为在狮子的字典里，'自由'和'
> >
> > 自我'这两词的比重几乎占据了全部。
> >
> >
> > 还有，狮子座的人很喜欢新鲜的，华丽的，有质感的，昂贵的，有品位的东西，他也喜欢
> >
> > 朴实，但是却不喜欢无聊和无趣，他害怕一成不变的枯燥，他害怕今天就能预见明天的可
> > 能性．
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人有两种不同的倾向，一种是很喜欢天然的东西，不喜欢过多的修饰；另一类是
> >
> > 很喜欢奢华另类奇特的事物，更多是狮子座是两者兼有．
> >
> >
> > 狮子座的人很宽容，通常不会因为小事而斤斤计较，他们喜欢展现自己与众不同的仁慈心
> >
> > 和获得尊重。对于过往的爱人，狮子座的人很少去探讨是谁的功过是非，无论当时对方有
> >
> > 多伤害自己，但是过去了就过去了，狮子座的人不会去诅咒或者怨恨，因为他们喜欢向前
> >
> > 看。狮子座的人相信，只要自己完美和努力，幸福就在前方，更美好的一定在等待着我们！！
2009年2月16日星期一
媽媽的帳單
小明家是經營餐廳生意，有時放學後他會到餐廳幫忙，招呼客人入座點菜收拾碗筷、算帳結帳。
他漸漸覺得自己似乎也成了一位生意人。
有一次，他忽然突發奇想，也開了一張帳單寄給媽媽，索取他在餐廳幫忙作事的酬勞。
幾天後，媽媽收到這份帳單，上面寫著：
１．洗碗盤費500元
２．掃地拖地費200元
３．送外食到顧客家300元
４．至郵局寄發信件帳單100元
５．小明一直是勤奮聽話的好孩子100元
共計1,200元
小明的媽仔細看過這份帳單後，什麼話也沒有說。
晚上小明在他的枕頭旁看到了他所索取的1,200元報酬。
正當他得意如願以償，要把1200元收到自己的口袋時，突然發現枕頭旁邊還放著一份給他的帳單。
小明欠他母親如下款項：
１．在母親家裡過十年平安無憂的生活費用0元
２．十年中，食、衣、住、行的費用0元
３．上學的學費、書籍費0元
４．生病時的醫藥、照顧費0元
５．有一個慈愛的母親0元
小明讀著讀著，感到羞愧萬分！
過了一會兒，他懷著一顆忐忑不安的心;躡手躡腳地走近母親，將小臉藏進母親的懷中，小心翼翼地把那1,200元塞進了她的圍裙口袋裡。
對媽媽好一點
他漸漸覺得自己似乎也成了一位生意人。
有一次，他忽然突發奇想，也開了一張帳單寄給媽媽，索取他在餐廳幫忙作事的酬勞。
幾天後，媽媽收到這份帳單，上面寫著：
１．洗碗盤費500元
２．掃地拖地費200元
３．送外食到顧客家300元
４．至郵局寄發信件帳單100元
５．小明一直是勤奮聽話的好孩子100元
共計1,200元
小明的媽仔細看過這份帳單後，什麼話也沒有說。
晚上小明在他的枕頭旁看到了他所索取的1,200元報酬。
正當他得意如願以償，要把1200元收到自己的口袋時，突然發現枕頭旁邊還放著一份給他的帳單。
小明欠他母親如下款項：
１．在母親家裡過十年平安無憂的生活費用0元
２．十年中，食、衣、住、行的費用0元
３．上學的學費、書籍費0元
４．生病時的醫藥、照顧費0元
５．有一個慈愛的母親0元
小明讀著讀著，感到羞愧萬分！
過了一會兒，他懷著一顆忐忑不安的心;躡手躡腳地走近母親，將小臉藏進母親的懷中，小心翼翼地把那1,200元塞進了她的圍裙口袋裡。
對媽媽好一點
2009年2月11日星期三
长大~
从小就希望长大, 因为长大后可以做很多小时候无法做的事。。
可长大后才知道， 要做很多事， 就得承受很多的压力与伤害。。
小时候，知道跌倒了，要自己爬起来，因为有许多身边的人鼓励～
可长大了，才知道这并不容易，没了鼓励，只多了讥笑和攻击。。
小时候，多大的梦想都敢去梦，
长大了，梦想越来越少,也越来越小。。
小时候，多难的事都想尝试，那怕是受伤了，也感到高兴～
长大了，都还没尝试，就先想到会受伤。。。
为什么长大了，什么都不一样了。。。
是长高了，所以看的更远了？
是人老了，所以更怕事了，梦也不敢了？
是成熟了，凡事都三思而后行？
是胆子小了，还是面对了现实。。
人言：初生之犊不怕虎～
不过，现实生活的残酷真的比老虎有过之而无不及～～！！！
可长大后才知道， 要做很多事， 就得承受很多的压力与伤害。。
小时候，知道跌倒了，要自己爬起来，因为有许多身边的人鼓励～
可长大了，才知道这并不容易，没了鼓励，只多了讥笑和攻击。。
小时候，多大的梦想都敢去梦，
长大了，梦想越来越少,也越来越小。。
小时候，多难的事都想尝试，那怕是受伤了，也感到高兴～
长大了，都还没尝试，就先想到会受伤。。。
为什么长大了，什么都不一样了。。。
是长高了，所以看的更远了？
是人老了，所以更怕事了，梦也不敢了？
是成熟了，凡事都三思而后行？
是胆子小了，还是面对了现实。。
人言：初生之犊不怕虎～
不过，现实生活的残酷真的比老虎有过之而无不及～～！！！
2009年2月9日星期一
hard feeling~~ >.<
last night attend my chapter CNY event, quite 're nao'. i m happy that its over now~
after the event i hang out with my friends, donno y, cant really having fun with them, just keep quiet n sit aside.. too many thg bother me, so 'fan nao'..
at last only left me n curly, from beginning i already plan to forget abt this year valentine day, treat it like normal day, but suddenly i wish i can celebrate it with some one.. some one i miss.. so sad.. then tears fall..
in the end, curly n i decided to go teluk bahang dam to relax our mind~ this is really far away from greenlane...
but in the also din go dam, because curly say his friends there also at teluk bahang got CNY gathering so v go for a look although now is already midnight. so because this decision, v force to stay there until 4am in the morning, because if v cant finish the beer there, cant go home.. haih.. beside drinking, then both of us see people gambling..
after all, still haven solve any of my problems, but beer did do a great job by giving me a deep deep sleep.. :)
after the event i hang out with my friends, donno y, cant really having fun with them, just keep quiet n sit aside.. too many thg bother me, so 'fan nao'..
at last only left me n curly, from beginning i already plan to forget abt this year valentine day, treat it like normal day, but suddenly i wish i can celebrate it with some one.. some one i miss.. so sad.. then tears fall..
in the end, curly n i decided to go teluk bahang dam to relax our mind~ this is really far away from greenlane...
but in the also din go dam, because curly say his friends there also at teluk bahang got CNY gathering so v go for a look although now is already midnight. so because this decision, v force to stay there until 4am in the morning, because if v cant finish the beer there, cant go home.. haih.. beside drinking, then both of us see people gambling..
after all, still haven solve any of my problems, but beer did do a great job by giving me a deep deep sleep.. :)
sharing~
F A M I L Y
I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.
He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
'While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse..
Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue..
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall. .
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said.
'Are these the flowers you picked for me?'
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'
I said, 'Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.'
He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.'
I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'
FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.
And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?
Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU
I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
'Oh excuse me please' was my reply.
He said, 'Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you.'
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said goodbye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
'Move out of the way,' I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
'While dealing with a stranger,
common courtesy you use,
but the family you love, you seem to abuse..
Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue..
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes.'
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall. .
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
'Wake up, little one, wake up,' I said.
'Are these the flowers you picked for me?'
He smiled, 'I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.'
I said, 'Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way.'
He said, 'Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.'
I said, 'Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.'
FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company
that we are working for could easily replace us in
a matter of days.
But the family we left behind will feel the loss
for the rest of their lives.
And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than into our own family,
an unwise investment indeed,
don't you think?
So what is behind the story?
Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU
2009年2月4日星期三
成功=坚持到底 ~nice article~just sharing with u all~
著名的哲学家苏格拉底有一次上课时没有授课，更没有和学生谈哲学。他对学生说：“今天，我要教你们一个成功的的方法，只要你们能够做到，将来一定能成功。”
学生兴奋地回答道：“老师，我们一定能够做到，你快教我们吧！”苏格拉底说道：“你们现在尽量把胳臂往后甩，然后往前甩。完成后重复30次就能够成功了。”
学生哄堂大笑，他们认为这么简单的事绝对没有问题。一星期后，苏格拉底就问学生：“有谁在这个星期内每天都甩胳臂30次呢？”班上只有一半的学生举手。
一个月后，苏格拉底再次的问道：“有谁在这一个月内每天都甩胳臂30次呢？”班上只有几位同学举手。
3个月后，苏格拉底再次的问道：“有谁在这3个月内每天都甩胳臂30次呢？”全班的同学鸦雀无声，这时，有一位同学把手高高地举起，大声地回答道：“老师，我有！”苏格拉底回答道：“很好，你会是另一个苏格拉底。”果然，这位孩子长大了以后就成为当时的另一位著名的哲学家伯拉图。
长久坚持不容易
最容易的事，如果要长久坚持下去，往往就会变成最难的事。最简单的事，其实并不简单。成功其实并不难，只要四个字“坚持到底”。新的一年来临的这一刻，不需要为自己立下什么人生大目标，也无须有什么宏愿，只要“坚持到底”就已足够了。
人生肯定有无数的磨练和困境，当我们独自踟蹰于黑暗之中，总会有绝望和无助的感觉。因此，我们必须凭着坚强的意志抓紧希望，坚信明天会更好，那么就会达到人生的目标。相信自己，在新的一年内，只要大家都能抱着“永不放弃，坚持到底”的信念，那么不管有再大 的困难都能“牛”转乾坤，明天会更好。
2009年2月2日星期一
2/2/09 CNY feeling...
CNY celebrating end today~
this year CNY i gambling alot, every two days gambling once, always gambling whole night until morning, conclusion is gambling is not good, not only my pocket n also health.. :)
din get much ang pow, cz go out with frenz most of the time.. go here n there, having fun.. :)
yesterday i am having a great experience at town, there is a CNY event tat SGM was invited to in charge of a title( malaysia caltural city) n a street (acheh road), so i am one of the model who wear malay wedding cloth. it is fun for whole day, and i realise i can do more things more than i thought. i really like the feeling to fool around n having fun with friends..
suddenly have a feeling that want to find a girl friend, i think soon.. wont be alone de.. this year is really a wonderful year~!!! i feel that i can live differently~!!!
this year CNY i gambling alot, every two days gambling once, always gambling whole night until morning, conclusion is gambling is not good, not only my pocket n also health.. :)
din get much ang pow, cz go out with frenz most of the time.. go here n there, having fun.. :)
yesterday i am having a great experience at town, there is a CNY event tat SGM was invited to in charge of a title( malaysia caltural city) n a street (acheh road), so i am one of the model who wear malay wedding cloth. it is fun for whole day, and i realise i can do more things more than i thought. i really like the feeling to fool around n having fun with friends..
suddenly have a feeling that want to find a girl friend, i think soon.. wont be alone de.. this year is really a wonderful year~!!! i feel that i can live differently~!!!
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